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LesleighBunker Hill
- Illinois
- United States
Online
Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57
"The world is full of hopeful analogies and handsome, dubious eggs, called possibilities."“Once you stop looking for love you will find it” but I do know they were wrong. I tried it for a very long time and found only apathy awaited me. The less effort I put in, I of course met less people and stayed in my safe familiar routine.I give more credence to someone who advised me that by pursuing your own interests and doing what you love, you are more likely to find someone who has the same interests. Unfortunately, my sedentary interests are not really conducive with meeting new people. I have come to realize that I have become stuck in my comfort zone. I guess I am probably like many of you who realize that looking online is a now a viable option whereas it once had a bit of a stigma attached to it.Which is not to say that I don’t like the outdoors since I do enjoy camping, hiking, barbecues with friends, that sort of casual stuff. I certainly would do more of it if I had a partner that shared those interests. I have lost 75 pounds in the last 2 years and continue on the path of better health and a more active lifestyle. I realize saying that you are “trying” to lose weight is a bit like people who say they are “trying” to quit smoking. That is why I have only brought it up now after I have done it long enough to know it is not something I will give up on. I also want to find someone who will encourage and join me in more active adventures, even just a simple hike.I certainly don't think it is wrong to look online, I just think we may limit ourselves. I have a friend who has dated a few guys she met online and said something that really made sense. She said that she probably judges too quickly. Some people she dismisses just based on pics or one badly written paragraph in their profile.She mentioned how one serious relationship she had years ago she never would have had if it were someone online. She worked with a guy that she did not find physically attractive, and did not think was interesting. After working with him over several months, he opened up more and his great personality came through and she found herself thinking he was attractive, both inside and out. Although it ended after several years, she looks back on it fondly, and wonders how many of the guys she went on just the one date with, or did not even respond to online, may have been her perfect match. I guess we all may be guilty of that, expecting *** So I am striving to be more open and hope others out there will do the same. I do crave and thrive on intellectual stimuli. This does not mean the subject has to be heavy or controversial, it simply means I enjoy verbal communication with someone who can contribute but not dominate the conversation. The know-it-all people of the world are the biggest turn-off! I really enjoy when a relationship reaches the comfortable level. I know some who need constant drama but I love when it becomes comfortable and even a bit routine. This does not mean boring or stagnant.One of my favorite activities with friends is “wine cheese” night. We buy all different types of cheese and crackers along with assorted toppings. We gather together and slice up the cheese and toppings while drinking wine and talking. Just the prep time can take an hour. A simple pleasure that I find never gets old.I know this might sound a bit cliche’ but the biggest turn-on to me is a wicked, sharp, self-deprecating sense of humor. I can find humor in almost anything and appreciate that in others. Here are my deal breakers:Sense of humor. Top of the list. Has to be there. Even if you are somewhat shy, as long as you appreciate and understand my sense of humor, we are off to a great start. If you are too serious, there is no chance for us to mesh.You must not use the word irregardless. You must have basic grammar skills such as never stating, “I seen that.”You must love animals. You must be able to eat without your mouth open and you do not scrape your teeth across the fork.You drink socially but events, meals etc. do not get planned around the fact that you will be able to drink at said event.I will in turn offer you loyalty, humor, adventure, conversation, hopefully everything you are looking for. I love good conversation and friendly debates. I love my family and although you do not have to be close to your family you need to accept that I am close to mine.There is this great song that really sums up my feelings these days.;I'll miss you till I meet you." :)I have more to share but if you are not interested by now, I don’t think the rest would change your mind. Hope you are out there! Something simple, like meeting for coffee.
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BudBunker Hill
- Illinois
- United States
Online
Man. 62 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: woman. In age: 40-55
Hi! My name is Bud. I am divorced other caucasian man with kids from Bunker Hill, Illinois, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.
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AggieBunker Hill
- Illinois
- United States
Online
Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: woman. In age: 43-53
Looking to make new friends and if I meet that special someone great. I want people in my life that love life and are happy to be here. Your smile is the most important thing. I love the outdoors, my dogs, entertaining, spending time with friends, traveling, hiking and relaxing at home.
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LaytonBunker Hill
- Illinois
- United States
Online
Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 44-54
Please read my profile, as I have added a few things. Only serious contenders please.I am a Christian first.......Romantic at heart, passionate (I love to kiss), energetic...... have been called a "cool chick." and have been told I have "soulful eyes." Compassionate heart, down to earth, previous ballroom dancing, which I might get back into.... I own a Harley helmet, so I can be the occasional "babe on the back of the bike."... I love NFL football, exercising, going to the beach, (I did scuba diving many years ago and would enjoy getting back into it), and make the best cheesecakes...... I am very comfortable being at home, watching a movie and cuddling, or going out with friends; not afraid of PDA's. Will tell you more when we talk.....:) Would like to meet someone who is attractive, active, enjoys romantic dinners at home or out; is not afraid of commitment or communicating feelings; financial stability is a must (I didn't say rich)... please be a kind, gentle yet strong man, who is seriously looking for your long term mate, perhaps even a wife someday. I would like to meet someone with a Christian background, i believe that two people should share core beliefs (i didn't say fanatical). I think you must be able to spend time with a person, in order for the relationship to grow, at least one day a week, and please be willing to talk on the phone some, Too much texting, makes "lost in translation" easy to occur.. If you are looking for a part-time" bed buddy" or lover, please keep searching elsewhere. The person I am going to be with romantically, will be a result of getting to know that person intimately, I don't want just a casual, physical relationship, I want the whole package: spiritually and emotionally. On another note, and not to sound shallow, but I do believe there has to be physical chemistry between two people. There are a lot of seemingly nice men on this site, but nice does not make up for chemistry. If you have seriously read this and have serious interest, please drop me a line. You never know coffee or tea and conversation.....then we'll see
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ChaiseBunker Hill
- Illinois
- United States
Offline
Man. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: woman. In age: 18-34
Hi! My name is Chaise. I am never married other caucasian man without kids from Bunker Hill, Illinois, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.
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CorrinBunker Hill
- Illinois
- United States
Online
Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: woman. In age: 45-55
I have an appreciation for a good time, boxed wine, and women with minimal luggage.I enjoy cooking, relaxing with my dog, frequenting the beach, watching football (GO COWBOYS).Shabby Chic, you know not to fancy but can handle myself in any situation.Looking for a funny and rounderful woman!!!
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TopherBunker Hill
- Illinois
- United States
Offline
Man. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: woman. In age: 22-32
Hi! My name is Topher. I am never married other caucasian man with kids from Bunker Hill, Illinois, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.
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ScreamochicaBunker Hill
- Illinois
- United States
Online
Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: woman. In age: 18-30
I love to laugh. So if you have a good sense of humor, I’ll likely like you. I love video games, I mainly play on PS3. I love music, absolutely love it. My favorite genre is rock music; Offspring, Hands like Houses, PVRIS, Metallica, too many more to name haha. I’m not looking to hook up or anything else like that. I’m looking to talk, make some friends, that stuff.
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BabaraBunker Hill
- Illinois
- United States
Online
Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
I am a fun loving person who is looking for someone to share the fun with me. I love music and going to concerts, watching or going to a sporting event, outdoor festivals, going to the beach and many more things. I am looking to develop a friendship first, and see where it goes from there. On a first date, it would be nice to meet somewhere for coffee, or a drink so that we could talk and begin to get to know each other.
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SarahjeanneBunker Hill
- Illinois
- United States
Online
Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56
I love to travel, go to casino's and spend time at the beach. I enjoy anything that has to do with water. I am kind hearted, easy going and a giver. I am seeking the same. I enjoy spontaneous road trips and just quiet times at home. I enjoy country music, 70's-now music and southern rock.I work full time and hope to go back to school for continuing my education. Some day hope to travel again.Would love finding someone to Jet Skiing, boating, shoot some pool or just hang out with. I have traveled a lot and I think this is the hardest State I have lived in to meet people. If you are out there and want to get together and just have some fun; send me an *** meet some where mutual and see if we click enough to hang out together. Then let nature take its course. Who knows we may become great friends or something more.NO drugs or excessive drinkers. Meet at a causal mutual place for coffee or drink; where we can talk and be comfortable.
